Monogamy Vs Polygamy... The One.

Alright... This is the question i found today. Before this becomes a good guy vs bad guy argument, let me clarify the parameters of the answer. We are all different with different prerequesites and capacities. For the record let me say i know people who are polygamous and they are sometimes some of the best and most loving people i know. Personally, i am disgustingly monogamous and it is not really a skill i harness but more a comfortable and natural state of being. At this juncture i'm more concerned with the one and the interaction of relationary preference- monogamy and polygamy, and with this idea of one love for life.

I have had the privilege of seeing both sides of the argument. However, the conversation becomes awkward when i try and defend my polygamy-minded brothers. As a matter of fact, i'm going to do away with that word polygamy and call them free.

Free lovers seem to have an infinite capacity to Love more people than is normal for most. And what is of great significance is that this does not alter their Love for one person when all is said and done. In some rare cases it makes them better Lovers. I must say i am in no way defending people who practice Free Love at the cost of someone elses feelings. That i cannot condone. What my focus is today is that it is what it is and we can spend time trying to change people to see things with monogamous goggles, or we could try to understand how to better have a relationship that accepts a person for who they are and can't help being.

But before i trap myself and pick a side, i will ask a question. Maybe a question you haven't asked yourself. Where we born to only Love one person and that's it? Where we born to Love all? These to questions define what is the limiting factor in understanding infidelity and soul mates. I throw it out. Ask me sometime... Truth.

For You...

OK pardon me i still haven't slept since the last post, i thought i would but the blood is rushing through my veins like hot magma. This is what it is to be alive and to have something of yourself out there... Hell of a feeling. But now this is not about me. its about us. So what do i have for us today, well now. A friend always tells me be honest but this always works better when i have a question (Ask me sometime...) What i have now is this. I am here to wage war on anything that tells you that it cant be done. I openly declare war on those who would say not like that. This is it, this is my truth.
Appropriately i must give a little background right. a little personal information (Ask me sometime). The only background i have is that i made a choice that my way was my own. i had to live with it. So i throw it out there not just for the sake of pushing books or love like a drug but do you truly believe that there is a you inside there. A you with wings and petals and layers. A you worth fighting for. Worth being yourself for? if your answer is yes then you are who i fight for as well. Who i write for and about. Who i say this to:

Feist- Anti-Pioneer

And i know there are some folk out there in the motherland without the bandwidth, i got you. That's LESLIE Feist singing. Its in my opinion about the last people to leave a party, the people who believed in it the most, who put their lives on the line for it. There comes a time where you don't want to pioneer things anymore i know this. But we are what we are. We make a choice in those moments. I made a choice ladies and gentleman and her name is forward. Ask me sometime... Truth!!